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What is journalling?
Journalling involves writing (or talking) about yourself and your life. You can write about anything that you want to, but it’s common to write about things that have happened in your life (either recently or in the past), your thoughts, and how you feel.
There are lots of different ways to journal – some people write in a notebook, while others use a journalling app or just the notes on their phone.
On this page we just talk about ‘writing’ to keep it simple – but some people find it easier (or more accessible) to use voice-to-text software or voice notes instead of writing or typing. If you use audio, this page is for you too.
The idea behind journalling is that writing things down helps you to express yourself – getting things out of your head and onto paper or a screen can help them feel much less overwhelming. Often, it also helps you to get a better perspective, or some more understanding about something that’s happened or the way you’re thinking and feeling.
Journalling doesn’t always mean writing every day (although some people find this helpful), and it doesn’t matter how ‘well’ you write. Journalling is for you, not anyone else – so you don’t need to worry about spelling, grammar, or the words you’re using.
How can journalling help your mental health?
Journalling can make a big difference to people’s wellbeing.
Expressing yourself
Writing things down can be a great way to express your feelings and it can help you feel less overwhelmed too. Whether you’re angry, sad, stressed, or worried, it’s rarely a good idea to try to push these feelings away – and journalling is a really healthy way to express them.
Getting perspective
Journalling often lets you see your thoughts and feeling from another perspective – and as a result, it can be easier to reflect.
With a bit of space, you might be able to notice links between the things that happen in your life, what happens in your head, and what you then do.
When you have this information, it’s more likely that you’ll be able to make changes that help you to feel better in the long run.
Examples of how journalling can give you perspective
For example, journalling might help you spot a pattern between skipping breakfast and feeling more irritable and stressed in the morning, so in future you can make sure you have breakfast every day.
Or journalling might help you realise that you started feeling anxious after watching the news – because you then know the feeling isn’t random, you can think about what you might do differently in future to take care of yourself.
Or journalling might give you the space you need to realise you’re being self-critical after you don’t do well on an exam and encourage
Problem solving
Journalling can also be a practical way to approach problem-solving – for example, if you write about the potential solutions and their strengths and drawbacks, or if it helps you understand all of the things that are affecting the problem in the first place.
If you’re struggling with your mental health
Of course, if you’re struggling with a mental health condition, journalling does not replace support like talking therapies – and if you’re in crisis, it’s important that you get urgent support as soon as possible.
While it is never a replacement, journalling can often help people get the most out of talking therapy or counselling.
For example, it might help them to think more about something they were talking about in a session, or help them better understand things they want to try to explain to their therapist in future.
Are these benefits proven by scientific studies?
The findings of scientific studies about journalling are usually about one type of journalling (or journalling in a specific context), so what they find can’t always be applied to journalling in general. This is because the results might be different if they repeated the study with people diagnosed with different mental health conditions, for example, or if they asked the same people to journal in a different way or journal more or less often.
However, in general, research suggests that journalling can have benefits for self-awareness, expressing and processing your emotions, and reducing stress.
It can also be helpful for people with mental health conditions.
One review of research showed that journalling can often be a way of reducing symptoms of mental health conditions including anxiety disorders, depression, and PTSD, for example.
How to start journalling
When it comes to journalling, everyone has to start somewhere. If you’ve never journalled before (or never found an approach that works for you), here are four things to consider before you get stuck in:
Explore your options
It’s up to you whether you want to use pen and paper, an app, a computer document, or the notes in your phone. You might want to think about how easily you’d be able to access the different options, how private they are, and whether you’d be able to journal without distraction.
Remind yourself it doesn’t have to be perfect
Sometimes people find it hard to start something new if they put pressure on themselves to get it right. With journalling, it isn’t about creating something ‘good’ – it’s about the process being helpful.
Start small
You don’t have to write multiple pages every time. You might be surprised at how helpful it can be to write just a few sentences about how you’re feeling.
Consistent doesn’t have to mean everyday
Some people find it helpful to try to write a little bit every day – but others might prefer writing less often. It’s a good idea to try to write fairly regularly, to help journalling become a habit – but if you’re busy or distracted for a bit, that’s OK too. It’s never too late to start journalling again.
Different types of journalling
There are different approaches to journalling, and all of them can work on paper or through an app or document.
You can mix-and-match from these approaches depending on what you find helpful, and what you need at any given time. It’s possible to try to gratitude journal most days, for example, but free write when you feel you need to – or to free write most of the time, but to use a journal prompt if you feel stuck or overwhelmed!
Free writing
Some people write freely – they just start writing and jot down whatever comes to mind.
Free writing might be a great option for you if:
- You know what you want to write about
- You’re looking to express yourself and get your thoughts and feelings down quickly
- You find structure too restrictive – or it feels like you’re being told what to do
You might find free writing less helpful if:
- You’re not sure where to start or find an empty page (or screen) intimidating
- You find it a bit awkward to write this stuff down, but think it would it easier with a bit more structure
- You end up feeling overwhelmed by all of your thoughts and feelings when you try to write like this
- Writing freely just means you end up in a spiral feeling even more sad, angry, or disappointed – and not finding any additional understanding or perspective
Gratitude journalling
Gratitude journalling is a pretty simple concept – it’s about listing a few things you’re grateful for each day. We know that deliberate gratitude is good for our wellbeing when it means we take the time to stop, recognise the good, and appreciate whoever (or whatever) has led it to happen.
Gratitude journalling might be a great option for you if:
- It feels like a more manageable commitment – just a few bullet points each day
- You don’t often notice the small, good things and you want to do so more
- You want to create a collection of good memories, even if they’re small moments
- You’re open to seeing if it helps your general mood
You might find gratitude journalling less helpful if:
- You want to explore your thoughts and feelings more widely, rather than just focusing on gratitude
- You want to write about something specific, like something that’s happened to you
Mood tracking
Some people approach journalling by tracking their mood (and sometimes other things, like how well they slept or whether they’ve been outside each day). Even though they’re not writing loads of words, they might still be able to identify patterns or triggers for their feelings.
Mood tracking might be a great option for you if:
- You find this kind of tracking helpful – and you want to know if the things you do are linked to how you feel
- You’re often not sure how you feel and you want to practise trying to identify emotions or rating your mood
- You think this will be more accessible than writing things out in words
You might find mood tracking less helpful if:
- You find tracking things boring and you’re not motivated to keep going
- Tracking things makes you feel self-critical, or you end up judging yourself
- You want to explore your thoughts and feelings more widely, rather than just noting things down
- You want to write about something specific, like something that’s happened to you
Journal prompts and templates
There are lots of journal prompts and templates available to guide you. Some are just one question (or a title), while others are more structured with a series of questions or instructions. Sometimes these prompts can be linked to a specific type of therapy approach (for example, cognitive behavioural therapy).
Prompts and templates might be a great option for you if:
- You want to explore your thoughts and feelings, but a blank page or screen feels overwhelming or scary
- You don’t know where to start, and you think a prompt would help you give journalling a go
- You know what you want to write about, but you’d find it helpful to have some structure or support to help you to express yourself
- You find you need some structure to help you find perspective, or to stop you spiralling and feeling stuck in challenging thoughts or feelings
You might find prompts and templates less helpful if:
- You just want to write – and don’t want to spend time looking at prompts or choosing one first
- You find structure too restrictive – or it feels like you’re being told what to do
Journalling templates and prompts you can try
There are lots of different prompts and templates you can use if you think it would be helpful to get started.
Explore your thoughts and feelings about a challenging situation
Sometimes you might want to journal if you’re struggling with something that’s happened now or in the past.
There are two templates that can help you journal about the challenging situation. Both are about your feelings, how you’re thinking about the situation, and what you’re planning to do.
Thought records
A thought record involves answering seven questions. It helps you identify your thoughts and feelings – and to consider whether your thoughts and the things you do are supported by evidence or not. It also asks if there could be a more helpful way to think about the situation instead.
How to fill out a thought record
Answer these questions:
- What happened?
- How did I feel at first – what was my immediate emotional reaction?
- What did I think at first – what were my immediate thoughts?
- Is there any evidence to support these thoughts being accurate or true?
- Is there any evidence against these thoughts being accurate or true?
- Are there any other more realistic or neutral ways I could think about or understand the situation?
- How have my feelings changed now I’ve answered these questions?
An example of a thought record
For example, if someone were filling out a thought record about a science test, they might write:
- I got a lower mark than I expected on a science test.
- At first, I felt disappointed and angry at myself. I felt ashamed and embarrassed about the mark.
- At first, I thought that I was stupid and a failure, and that there’s no hope that I’ll ever get a good grade – so I may as well stop trying.
- The evidence to support these thoughts is that I got a lot of questions wrong and that I’ve aways struggled with some of these topics.
- The evidence against these thoughts is that my teacher said they could go over the topics again with me and it would get easier. I also know that doing badly in one test does not mean that I am stupid because I am good at other things.
- Another way of thinking about the situation might be that this test was challenging and I didn’t do as well as I wanted to – it’s still disappointing, but it is not hopeless. I know which topics I need to go over again, and my teacher can help me. It’s OK not to get everything right on this test because I can learn more in the future.
- Now, I still feel disappointed about the test but I feel less angry with myself. I feel more hopeful and more motivated that I can practise the topics and the next test will feel easier.
Theory A and theory B
Another way of journalling about a challenging situation or problem is answer questions about two ways of understanding a situation – theory A and theory B.
Theory A is how you think about the situation at the moment, and theory B is an alternative way of thinking about it.
Answering similar questions about each theory helps you to compare the evidence for each theory and think about what you’ll do next.
How to fill out a table comparing theory A and theory B
Theory A:
- How do you see the problem or situation at the moment?
- What’s the evidence for this theory?
- What would you need to do if theory A were true?
- If theory A were true, what would it mean for you and your future?
Theory B:
- What’s another way of thinking about the problem or situation?
- What’s the evidence for this other theory?
- How could you find out if this other theory were true?
- If theory B were true, what would it mean for you and your future?
An example of using theory A and theory B
For example, someone following following the theory A and theory B template about a friendship might write:
Theory A:
1. Some of my friends went out shopping without me – I wasn’t invited, and I only found out because I saw pictures online. This happened because they don’t really like me – they think I’m annoying. No one wants to spend time with me because I’m a bad person.
2. I saw the photos they posted, so I know they went. I wasn’t invited, so that must mean they didn’t want me there.
3. Stop trying to spend time with them and stop talking to them. Maybe leave the group chat or block them on socials. Be alone more and stop trying to make an effort.
4. I’d be lonely and I’d never be able to have friends because no one likes me and everyone will always get fed up with me.
Theory B:
1. I don’t know why they didn’t invite me – it might be because it was a last-minute plan, or because they just bumped into each other when they were already out. I don’t know the whole story about what happened, so I can’t know that it means they don’t like me.
2. They’ve invited me to other things before. We talk at school and online and things seem OK.
3. I could talk to one of them about it. Or I could suggest we do something next weekend. I could also think about whether this is a one-off or a pattern. I could also talk to my form tutor about it because she often makes helpful suggestions.
4. I don’t have to give up on these friendships yet – it might all be OK. I can always ask my form tutor for help and they’ll help me whatever happens with this friendship situation. One situation doesn’t mean I have to throw away these friendships – and even if these friends leave me out again, it doesn’t mean anything about me as a person.
Write a letter to yourself from a more compassionate perspective
The idea of writing a letter to yourself might feel a bit strange at first, but some people find it a really helpful way to express themselves and see their situation from another, kinder point of view.
Writing a letter from a compassionate point of view means trying to be caring – to understand your situation, care about yourself, and think about what you can do to move forwards.
Some people find it helpful to try to write to themselves like they’d write to a friend – others imagine the most compassionate version of themselves is writing the letter. What’s important is that you try your best to be calm, understanding, and kind to yourself.
It’s up to you how you approach writing a letter like this – you can refer to yourself as ‘I’ or as ‘you’ – whatever feels most comfortable.
How to get started writing a compassionate letter
There’s no one template to follow, but you might find it helpful to follow these ideas. You can talk about yourself as ‘I’ or ‘you’, whichever feels more comfortable.
Acknowledging how you’re feeling, using phrases like:
- I know you’ve been feeling…
- This situation is making you feel…
- I’ve been feeling…
- What’s happening is making me feel…
Trying to understand and accept your emotions, using phrases like:
- I know that’s really difficult. It’s understandable that you have these feelings, because…
- I’m sorry that this has happened to you, and that you’re having to cope with…
- Feeling like this is unbearable, but it is not my fault. It’s understandable that…
- This has been really hard. It makes sense that I feel…
Reminding yourself of things you know and need to hear, using phrases like:
- This is not your fault. You are doing your best to cope with a really difficult situation.
- I’d like you to know that…
- I hope you know that it’s OK to feel…
- I feel like I should be able to get on with it and manage – but I know that’s not realistic or fair.
- I know that responding like this does not mean that there’s anything wrong with me – it’s natural to have feelings like this after what I’ve been through…
Thinking about what you can do next to look after and help yourself, using phrases like:
- I know you’re really struggling to manage, but you often feel a lot better if you try to…
- I want things to get easier for you, and I know you want that too. Even through it feels difficult, I wonder if it might help to…
- There might be some things I can learn from this – even though what happened wasn’t my fault. In future, I might…
- Right now, I know I need…
Try a daily check in template
Some people find it helpful to start with the same few questions every day. Sometimes they might continue journalling if something’s on their mind – but even if they don’t, answering a few simple questions can make a big difference.
What sort of questions can you include in a daily check-in?
You can pick and choose questions to make a check-in that works for you, but some people like to include questions like:
- What was the best bit of my day?
- What are three things I’m grateful for today?
- How am I feeling right now?
- On a scale of 1 to 10, how has my mood been today?
- What was the strongest emotion I felt today?
- What’s been the most challenging part of my day?
- Did anything make me feel stressed today?
- What did I succeed at today?
- Did anything help me feel calm today?
- Is there anything I want to leave here today, and not take into tomorrow?
- What can I do to take care of myself tomorrow?
Journalling apps you can try
Lots of apps have features that allow you to journal or track your mood, including:

MindShift CBT
The MindShift CBT app helps people tackle their anxiety using tools based on cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT).

Manatee
The Manatee app helps young people connect with their parents and carers, with content and support for both.
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